Sibling’s love-hate relationship

This article has already been published on Geo Vision website. I wrote this article for the website and now sharing a few chunks over here on my blog so that my readers can read. This was a different drama of its time produced by Pakistan Television Industry. 

meri behan maya“Our women are strong but in our serials, they are depicted as fragile and connivers,” states Hasina Moin, an acclaimed writer who has also written some of the epic dramas including Tanhayein, Ankahi and so on. After taking a long break, she started with the serial ‘Meri Behen Maya’; a story of two sisters where you saw the bond of love and support which unfortunately lacks in our dramas now-a-days.

So, what was the main concept behind writing Meri Behen Maya (MBM)? According to Hasina Moin, I feel really hurt to see women cry and wallow over petty issues, and unable to stand up for their rights, this is one of the significant reasons that compel me to resume writing again.

Women face domestic violence, they are harassed outside their homes and are treated as suppressive beings. Hasina Moin asserts that this is not the true picture that we see; she is of the opinion that these women have the potential and strength to uphold all the hardships with courage.

x1080-LeSMoreover, the other idea behind the serial is to defy the wrong depiction of sisters’ relation that promotes only hatred and nothing else. Hasina Moin believes that sisters do not deceive each other; rather they protect each other against the world. In her serial, she projected the positive side of sisterhood. One of the primary reasons to resume writing was to clear misconceptions regarding women, Moin adds.

MBM promoted the love-hate relationship between two sisters who at one moment were seen fighting with each other and at another moment they were sharing interesting stories while munching popcorn.

The portrayal of sisters in this serial was played by two female protagonists who are fearless and lively, and believe in living on their own terms. Annie Jaffri played the character of a younger sister Maya; she is upfront and bold, also expressive and does not conform to anything that she cannot relate to. According to Jaffri, the character is more like me, I am outspoken and love outings, even her family relate to her role.

Whereas Neelam Munir played the role of older sister Zarmeena; she is sensible and tries to cover Maya’s mess. Munir is the complete opposite of her character, and therefore she had to work on her body language, style and the behaviour. Munir shares her experience that to perform it accordingly, she observes her elder sister which helps a lot in understanding her character in the serial.

meri behen 5In replying to the question regarding the ‘look’ in the serial, both Munir and Jaffri say that western attire was more preferred for their characters, the decision was made after having a thorough discussion with the team.

However, when asked about the atmosphere on the sets and how did they find working with each other? Both female protagonists spoke highly of their team and they found it very helpful. Though Jaffri’s association with Azfar Ali is not new as she has also worked in Dreamers with him, so far it’s been good for her. Moreover, the teasing which was seen onscreen of both sisters was only for the serial, quips Munir and Jaffri with a smile; nevertheless on-set they both had a very congenial relationship.

The script was a refreshing one and every actor had performed well. Moin is all praise for the team. She had a very good working relationship with Iqbal Ansari who is also the Project Head of MBM; overall it had been a good experience.

untitledMoin signifies the importance of making children bold and confident, so that no one sabotages their rights and fight for themselves.

Seconding Moin’s opinion, Jaffri also says it is important for young girls to be strong in these times and do not give in. Munir on other hand believes that fathers should avoid second marriage and do not try to impose step-mothers on their children, it leaves a bad impact on the minds of the kids.

In a nutshell, dramas are always a revelation of our society, whether it’s good or bad but these days, where every other drama emphasises more on negative side of our society, Meri Behen Maya highlighted the ups and downs of familial relations.

 

 

 

Ethical code for Health Management

“A man without ethics is a wild beast loosened upon this world” an adage by Albert Camus truly defines the nature of humans. A person of good ethical values is considered a boon to the society whereas a person without moral values is nothing but a bane for the society.

Ethics is defined as ‘moral standards’ which helps a person to differentiate between right and wrong. Every society has certain norms and values according to which they live in this world. Different people have different perceptions regarding ethics. What is right for one person may not be appropriate for other one. For instance, a person who lies and cheats in Islam is considered immoral; not only Islam but even other religion as well. Without ethics, a man or even a society is corrupted.

However, the question arises that is it only relevant to the society? What about organizations, institutes or even companies? Do they need to follow principles? We know that every person is responsible for their own conduct but it is equally important for any organization to have certain code of conduct that determines its nature of work.

Therefore in health care an ethical code is also important because here, lives of people are at stake. Since we know that a person if morally bounded will be more careful. According to the biomedical research, health care should have the code of conduct that should be followed stringently. Medical ethics are the code of conduct for doctors and physicians to follow

Back in times, ancient Egypt was the first one that applied ethics in medical profession. The first known document dealing with ethics was Egyptian papyri in 16th century B.C.; in the same era, Hammurabi set the codes for the physicians and surgeons. Moreover, Hippocrates, the father of medicine said 2500 years ago: “To observe all, study the patient rather than the disease, evaluate honestly and assist nature.” Even the Hippocrates oath was also based on ethics; though the oath has been amended many times by different countries. Recent times, World Medical Association is the largest assembly of doctors that has deliberated since 1948 regarding code; with the help of their guidelines, most of medical associations of the countries follow these principles by making certain amendments according to their facility.

There are certain codes for the physicians to follow; for instance to keep the secret of patients with themselves and do not leak it out. A doctor should give utmost importance to the emergencies if any other doctor is not provided. Human lives are very important and they should be taken care regardless of the monetary benefits. A doctor should be honourable as well as work in service of humanity; a doctor must also be truthful to the patients. They should also reveal the quack or fake doctors to if they find any.

Regardless of these codes of conduct, what we have seen in Pakistan is absolute negation of these codes. Doctors do not put sincerity to their work rather they look ways for monetary gain. As saying goes: “Health is Wealth” but over here, if you are wealthy or powerful person you are treated very well whereas the poor ones have to suffer through quacks. These codes are broken openly over here. We have seen the negligence in Lahore where so many people have died due to fake medicines prescribed by these doctors. It is true that a knowledgeable and skilful doctor is of no use if he/she is morally weak. For instance, the protests staged by Young Doctors’ Association (YDA) for their ad-hoc transfer issue last month, led to the closure of major healthcare facilities, which deprived health care access to the patients-an unethical approach in the eyes of morality. Similarly, the dealing of doctors with the pharmaceutical industries leads physicians to prescribe expensive medicines to the patients, irrespective of their financial status. In return, these doctors are given incentives and perks by these pharmaceutical companies which basically promote unethical practices. Moreover, there are some physicians who at times, prescribe unnecessary tests that are costly for the poor patients, but they emphasize for these tests to be conducted by specific laboratory, to which they have partnered with.  It seems that these doctors, physicians and health care management have forgotten the principles and code of ethics; only black law is followed everywhere.

Having said that, there are some rotten eggs which are present in every organization, same like in medical field but what is needed to adopt immediate measures to identify and rectify these rotten practitioners taking advantage of their hapless patients.

Stress makes it worse…

What happens when you have less time and so many works to do within a specific time? It all becomes a mess because so many works at one time affect your results.

You could not bring the best out of your work. You do cramming and it reduces the efficiency of your work; the result is same like now I am having while writing on this journal.

It is natural because when you are in stress, your mind shuts off, thoughts are all jumbled and the outcome of it is not good. What you want to say does not make any sense and you make a fool of yourself.

The causes of stress vary among people belonging to different fields whereas it is very commonly observed that the students are actually hassle about their assignments.

At the end of the term, they are out of time to complete their coursework and could not meet their deadlines which make them tense and as a consequence, their ability to produce good work is badly affected.

However the only way to evade this situation is to plan out the schedule and divide the work into smaller segments, try to disciplined oneself.

Alas! It never happens and every term the students do what they have done in their previous terms.